Intimidating? Me?
I was told tonight at work that I’m intimidating. That maybe one of the reasons I’m having a hard time finding “Mr Right” is because I’m very “this is who I am. This is how it is. Take it or leave it.” But— then, if I can’t find someone while being myself…then, isn’t it MR WRONG!? I can’t become one of those pushover barbie’s! I just can’t. I don’t like people thinking that they can just one-up me. Like, for instance, this guy (we’ll call him *James). James basically wrote me off by not returning my calls/etc. Well, in my eyes, he’s letting ME know that he’s too good for me. He rejected ME. Why couldn’t it have been the other way around? I mean, its not like HE was the nicest looking fish in the pond. I liked his personality and decided to give it a shot on personality, thinking the other could grow on me. I guess I’m a little “butt-hurt” for being rejected that way. That’s just cold.
Has anyone else noticed that most of my posts start with “so?”
*James IS his real name. Go figure. Men = innocent? HA!
I’ve noticed myself wanting to start my blogs w/ “so”, but then I feel like I have to change it LOL
As far as intimidating, maybe the person who told you is easily intimidated. Being intimidating isn’t such a bad thing, I would take it as a compliment, being that people would find me challenging. And when you’re intimidated, you feel like you have to impress that person, right? Can’t be all that bad LOL. Maybe, if nothing else, work on your approachability, I have never met you, but maybe that’s what they meant when they said that.
Glad you’re smart enough to know NO MAN is worth changing who you are for. You are who you are, and should be accepted for just that! I’ve tried being something else to be liked, it doesn’t work. There’s a quote somewhere, “I’d rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I’m not” and that’s the truth!